Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Another first day...






Here we go, again!  What on earth is happening?  One minute you are becoming a mother for the first time and in a few blinks of an eye you have two more sweet children and your oldest is headed off to second grade.  Time is seriously flying by.  And these days are so precious.  Sigh.

In an attempt to keep myself from getting too emotional, I just keep glancing back at Ezra's right big toe in the photo above.  It helps.

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Blessed...

Today marks my grandparents' 70th wedding anniversary.  Yes, you read that right. Seventy!  I can hardly even imagine being alive for seventy years, let alone being married for that long.  I'm pretty sure there are very few people who can make that claim.  But these two can.  And it's nearly impossible for me to express in words what their example has meant to all of us.  I know the road has not always been easy, but the richness that has come from their lifetime of commitment to God and to one another is immeasurable.  We celebrated with the extended family today, a family that includes 4 children, 15 grandchildren, and 27 great grandchildren.  It's a rare occasion these days that we manage to get so many of us in the same spot at the same time, and it was such a treat to get to catch up today.  Earlier this week, I overheard a conversation Grandpa was having with an acquaintance.  At one point, the fellow he was talking to asked him, "Jack, you have such a legacy and all this family around.  What do you attribute all of it to?" Grandpa replied, "I'm just blessed."



I want to point out that today also marks my parents' 45th wedding anniversary.  And although 70 is hard to beat, 45 is no small accomplishment.  Mom and Dad, you too have set such an amazing example for us of what God intended for marriage.  Thank you for loving each other, committing to each other, and never giving up on each other.  I hope and pray that some day C.J. and I will be able to say that we, too, have been married for 45 years!




If you are interested in seeing more photos from the day, feel free to watch the slideshow below.    Enjoy!





Friday, August 22, 2014

Sleep, Precious Sleep...




If I see you on a somewhat regular basis in real life, then you have probably already heard me talk your ear off about this issue. Because, it really is that big of a deal. People, my sweet baby boy actually sleeps! As in, he takes a good solid 2 hour nap in the morning, another hour long nap in the afternoon, and often a third cat nap later in the day. And then, he goes to bed at 7:00 PM and pretty much sleeps until 6:00 AM. Yes, he does wake up a few times during the night but we usually just give him his pacifier and blankie and he rolls right back over and goes to sleep. Occasionally he cries a bit longer than that, but he no longer nurses at all at night! This might not sound like a big deal to some of you, but it's pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me. (ok, so I might be exaggerating a wee bit, but it really does make a HUGE difference in our daily lives) And I pretty much owe it all to this awesome book my dear friend let me borrow titled, "The Sleep Easy Solution." If any of you out there have a baby who you wish would sleep better or more regularly, I would highly recommend this book. It worked wonders for us. Honestly, I kinda wish I had read it seven years ago.  For now, though, I am just enjoying the deep breath I can take knowing that my baby is actually getting some good rest and, therefore, so am I.  And it feels so good! 

Fall Blooms...

My mother in law picked these hydrangeas for me from her garden this morning.  They might just be my favorite flowers ever.  They are absolutely stunning and are the perfect addition to our home for fall.  These photos definitely don't do them justice.  Isn't God's creation fabulous?


Wednesday, August 13, 2014

The Family Selfie...

So C.J. and I both have old school cell phones.  Neither of us has internet access from our phones, nor do we have built in cameras that take a picture worth keeping.  But in an attempt to get faster internet here in the sticks, C.J. had a new phone shipped to our house today.  Unfortunately, it doesn't really improve our internet access much so it's going to be returned within seven days.  But before we send it back, we had to make use of a fun camera that automatically sends the pictures to our computer.  We couldn't let this crazy new age technology go unused! So here you get a peak at our family selfies.  And also, it's apparent that I went a little photo collage happy today, but whatever.

As Promised...


Friday, August 8, 2014

Healthy and Thankful...




First of all, did you notice those two shiny teeth? They are here to stay, folks!  I guess that means we will likely be having our first taste of solid food soon.  I'll be sure to keep you updated on that monumental step in babyhood when it happens.  For now, though, I thought I would fill you in on our first, and hopefully only, trip to Seattle Children's Hospital.  Mostly I want to document that we were ever even concerned about a couple of things regarding this sweet baby's health.  Because, you know.  Once you find out it's no big deal, those stresses and concerns you have about your child seem to be forgotten over time.  And then you eventually remember that once upon a time you were worried he had something terribly wrong with him, like maybe his trachea was being strangled by some cancerous chord and he would slowly suffocate.  Or maybe you don't because you're not me.  But if you are me, then you have to fight not fearing the worst.  And I might just go out on a limb here and say that if you are a mother at all, you have to fight the same battle.  Maybe I'm wrong?  So anyway, back to our baby.  At about six weeks old, we noticed that Ezra was breathing really funny when he would fall asleep in his car seat.  If I could describe it in words, I'd say it sounds like a whooping snore.  He snored a bit on his back and did the typical weird baby breathing, but this is different.  And it's alarming enough that on several occasions I pulled the car over to wake him up.  I mentioned it to the doctor at about 2 months and he thought it might be something called Tracheomalacia, a fairly common condition in which the tissue around the trachea is a bit flimsy and makes a funny sound during breathing when the baby is really relaxed (i.e. sound asleep).  In most cases, babies outgrow it within the first two years of life.  OR, if not tracheomalacia, there could possibly be some sort of growth in his trachea obstructing air flow.  Now this is where I need to mention that Ezra has an odd dimple right in the center of his neck that he was born with.  When you pull on the skin around it, the dimple deepens.  I thought nothing of it at first.  But one day I showed it to my mother-in-law while I was bathing Ezra and she sort off handedly commented that it looked like a tracheotomy.  Ding ding ding!  For the first time ever, I was a bit concerned about that funny little dimple.  I showed it to the doctor at Ezra's next well child visit and sure enough, he was concerned as well.  So, he sent us to Seattle Children's Otolaryngology Clinic to have it looked into further.  His appointment was this last Wednesday, and I am oh-so-thankful to be able to say that Ezra will, most likely, be perfectly fine.  It turns out that, in Ezra's case, the abnormal breathing is actually called Laryngomalacia.  Basically, the  cartilage around the larynx is not as strong as it should be and flops a bit when he breaths and therefore causes a funny sound.  For some children, this is a major problem and they immediately do surgery to correct it.  For those babies, they struggle to grow because their bodies are using all their energy on simply breathing.  Fortunately for Ezra, his has a very minor case and nothing needs to be done about it.  They stuck a little camera up through his nose and down his throat to rule out any sort of growth and sure enough, you could see the floppy tissue.  No growth, thankfully!  The doctor thought that for Ezra, he should outgrow it by about 18 months, if not sooner.  The dimple in his neck they labeled an epidermal inclusion cyst. From what I could understand, when babies are developing in the womb, they have little gill like openings in their face and neck that eventually close up and form ears, tonsils, and such. (If you are a doctor or a nurse or have any extensive medical knowledge,  you are likely chuckling right now because I might be way off on what really happens in utero, but like I said, this is what I could understand!)  In some cases, those little openings don't close all the way and form long tubes that are tethered to something inside the baby, like a tonsil.  In Ezra's case, the doctor didn't seem to think it was tethered that far, but instead formed a tiny pocket inside his skin that is attached to the skin around it.  It will be there for good and will likely be just fine as it is.  There is no need to do anything about it unless it starts to get infected or he hates having a weird dimple in his neck later in life.  So there you have it: a really long, boring explanation of some potential health problems that thankfully turned out to be no big deal.  And let me just say, I do not take the health of my children for granted.  Even just going through something as little as this makes my heart ache for parents out there whose children have legitimate medical issues.  I am so thankful that, by God's grace, my children are strong and healthy.  I know there is no guarantee that will always be the case, so for now I am grateful!